Ok one more thing I need to get off my chest about being insecure. As we well know summer time equals girls showing lots of skin, guys too for that matter. So my boyfriend has a pool at his apartment complex and I am now worried he will meet someone at the pool, who lives in his complex. I hate thinking like that but I can't help it. I have laid out by his pool when he is working and there are a lot of young, hot girls around that pool. I don't want to worry about this every time he tells me he is going by the pool but I have a feeling I am going to be and I don't know what to do about it. He works four days, 12 hour shifts, two nights and two days. Then four days off. So we are on different schedules. Granted we do get to see each other a lot but I know I won't be able to go to the pool all the time when he does. Yes I know I sound like a control freak but I'm not, I won't tell him how I feel, he already knows I'm insecure, etc. I just don't now how not to think about him being by the pool with other girls in skimpy bathingsuits!!

What to do what to do.
Ps. He is there now!

OK OK why did you post this 3 times? I find that a little aggitating.. sorry to be blunt but we will answer your question when we want to, and by forceing your question up here a million times is annoying.. OK now that being said..

If your boyfriend is going to cheat on you, he will cheat on you.. no amount of worry in the WHOLE world will EVER stop that.. that's just the facts.. There are hot females in this world, and they are all over.. and yes, they will be attracted to your man.. the truth.. what he decides to do with it is what will either make or break your relationship.. example: he will either decide to cheat or not.. Sitting at home and thinking of every possible way that he can cheat has got to be the worst thing possible for your well being..

I think that if a person is going to cheat.. you will find out sooner or later.. hence that isn't the person that you want to be with anyway right? So you will be better off.. the more you worry and hold on the relationship the more he's going to pull away (and believe me you don't have to voice it, they sense it) just stop thinking so much and like I said earlier focus on YOU and do things for yourself and get your mind off this garbage, it's no GOOD!!!