Well hi I'm so conffuse I don't know what to think.Me and my boyfriend have 4 month of being together and he would always text me each morning with Hi babe good morning I got so use to it and now he doesn't.We use to talk every night and its been 2 weeks we don't he said he's been real tired but I don't know what to think.Yesterday I called him at 9pm and he didn't answer he called me back at 12 midnight and he left a message saying he was sorry he had taken a nap and he over slept.But he wasn't like that before see he lives in Hayward and I live in Orange County so the only thing we have is a phone call.Hes 30 and I'm 28

Been there and this is the experience I love to share. Give ur Bf some air. Quiting from his routine doesnt mean that he stopped loving you. Men needs space. Just keep on showin ur support meybe he has a lot of things goign on and he can't keep you with it for now. Ur off from courting stage now so u must understand. He can't be with u everyday as both of you should have separate lives as well. Keep in mind that too much availability lessens interest and excitement. As long as u feel not abused, still respected and loved, stay.

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Originally Posted by sunshine8424

Me and my boyfriend have 4 month of beeing together.

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I thought I read 4 yrs. So ur still in courting stage but yes still give him a break. Dotn be too demanding. If he's acting like this for a couple of months then thats the time to reevaluate things. But now, too early to tell.