I am beginning to believe that the more you ignore a guy, the more he follows you around like a puppy dog. Why is this? I am dating a guy that doesn't ask me out on dates, he just wants to be my boyfriend. This is getting on my nerves so I stopped returning his phone calls today and I think I threw him for a loop. He has text me 3 times and called me 2 times. I am going to tell him the next time I see or talk to him that I don't see him enough to care about him. I can't wait to hear what his response is. I don't care if I get rejected because I am not looking for love right now. I just got divorced. I would, however, like to practice a little manipulation to see where it takes me. It seems like the es are the ones that have the most fun and the most dates. I would like to know what the public thinks of that. Are men really that into a challenge?

Haha. I agree. Guys always want what they can't have.

I recently dealt with a situation similar. My ex did the same thing to me.

I guess that is why he is your ex. Do you mean that every weekend came and went and he never took you out? I just don't get that. Does anyone know a good way to get my guy's attention and maybe get him to ask me out? I know he likes me because he tells me everyday how sexy I am and how much he misses me but who knows. I think he is strange.

It is common knowledge to most that people want what the can't have more than what is easily available to then. However, there is a point where they recognise defeat and give up, so be careful if you adopt this strategy to someone you don't want to push away.

If you must practice deception and manipulation, then they aren't worth it, when you can get a mature healthy male to have real fun with. Its not always the partners fault, when your not happy, or satisfied, its was your choice to be with them in the first place. Its your choice to stay also.

Guys tent to love challenge and thrill... if something is too easy.. or just simply is there,. we just lose interested and thinking it no fun >... but if you are a challenge and hard to get... we think the harder to get you be ours the more fun.. more time we will spend on you and chasing you..

HUMAN NATURES >>>> how stupid huh?. you always wanted what you can't help... yet when you lose it you realized you lost what you always wanted