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  • Jun 19, 2008, 12:51 PM
    mariam92186
    Pain and intercourse
    Is it normal to have vaginal soreness and tenderness after intercourse?
  • Jun 19, 2008, 01:12 PM
    smoothy
    You shouldn't have pain... perhaps you started before your were sufficiently primed. Basically foreplay in order for your body to provide sufficient lubrication.

    If that wasn't enough then you might look into other personal lubricants for the future. Do it when you are still somewhat dry and then its not unusua to happen. Just saying it doesn't have to.
  • Jun 19, 2008, 04:36 PM
    Xrayman
    There may be some mild soreness after a rough session, but no it is not normal to have painful intercourse. Lubricants are the best way to test this though-use them. If it still hurts you, I'd suggest a visit to the doctors/gyno
  • Jun 20, 2008, 05:44 AM
    Choux
    It sounds to me like you and your partner are stroking and receiving WAY TOO LONG. There is no reason to have a stroking portion of lovemaking longer than five minutes. Otherwise, a woman risks bladder infections and roughing up of the genitals which causes tenderness and being sore.

    If both of you are going longer than this because the woman has not orgasm'd, then instead of more stroking, engage in more sexy foreplay of all kinds. :)

    Give your vulva and vagina a rest for awhile, and read about different kinds of exciting foreplay. :)

    Best wishes,
  • Jun 20, 2008, 08:10 AM
    kp2171
    As mentioned, we need more information. Its an adult forum. Details are fine and needed.

    Do you feel well lubricated during sex? How long does sex last? Do you feel raw (like friction burns) or do you hurt like an irritation? Is it the same wheter he is on top or you? Is it the same if he ejaculates inside you or uses a condom? Is it the same whether he uses a condom or not?

    The short answer is most don't hurt all the time. It can happen for a lot of different reasons. Tell us as much as you can and we can try to work this out.
  • Jun 27, 2008, 12:14 AM
    javed333uk
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mariam92186
    Is it normal to have vaginal soreness and tenderness after intercourse?

    In some cases yes.it probably occurs when there is no lubrication during intercourse
  • Jun 27, 2008, 08:13 AM
    smoothy
    I think EL MUDDAHASSADA has never been with a woman much less knows anything about them... based on his comments and bull**** red flags he's giving people. Particularly since he (or She) has zero posts, and didn't even have the nerve to enter any information into their profile whatsoever that's visible to users.

    Moderators is there anything that can be done about them.
  • Jun 27, 2008, 10:59 AM
    Synnen
    He/She has no posts because they've all been deleted.

    We could probably all go through and balace each other on the reddies, but I doubt we could delete the disagrees.

    I'm betting that Rick or Ben or J_9 or Scott or Chuck has already banned him, anyway.

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