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  • Jun 19, 2008, 11:54 AM
    MR SADSACK
    Here we go again
    Hi all
    The Sad sack has returned I failed... I contacted her and as much as it was kind of 'nice' I learned stuff that was tearing the living hell out of me
    Not that she was doing anything just living here life I guess without me in it and some of it just made me feel so 'alone'
    Here is my problem and boy do I need some help

    She mentioned she may be going to a Ball game on the weekend where I know a lot of guys view her as fresh meat... [their term not mine]
    She knows it too but says there is no interest at all I actually think she finds it a bit amusing to be honest...

    Nonetheless I made contact and this is the result so let this be a warning to all those contemplating it...
    It just tears you to shreads
    Having done it though, I now have to face the weekend 'wondering' did sh go to the game? What happened?? Etc etc...
    Should I know??
    Should I not know??
    Seems like a simple question doesn't it...
    If I do Know at least it kills this overpowering curiosity but kills me even more
    If I don't then it remains curiosity but Ill always be wondering... GOD!!

    THis even affects me to the point of even if I see guys on TV playing the game she is going to see it deporesses the hell out of me...
    Am I going nuts here??

    What do I do my friends please help I need to get some help before the weekend

    The sack

    Hi all
    The Sad sack has returned I failed... I contacted her and as much as it was kind of 'nice' I learned stuff that was tearing the living hell out of me
    Not that she was doing anything just living here life I guess without me in it and some of it just made me feel so 'alone'
    Here is my problem and boy do I need some help

    She mentioned she may be going to a Ball game on the weekend where I know a lot of guys view her as fresh meat... [their term not mine]
    She knows it too but says there is no interest at all from her... I actually think she finds it a bit amusing to be honest... however in the next breath she says some of them are 'hot'
    Like I needed to hear that!

    Nonetheless I made contact and this is the result so let this be a warning to all those contemplating it...
    It just tears you to shreads
    Having done it though, I now have to face the weekend 'wondering' did sh go to the game? What happened?? Etc etc...
    Should I know??
    Should I not know??
    Seems like a simple question doesn't it...
    If I do Know at least it kills this overpowering curiosity but kills me even more
    If I don't then it remains curiosity but Ill always be wondering... GOD!!

    THis even affects me to the point of even if I see guys on TV playing the game she is going to see it deporesses the hell out of me...
    Am I going nuts here??

    What do I do my friends please help I need to get some help before the weekend

    The sack
  • Jun 19, 2008, 12:03 PM
    emopunk7
    Just relax... Why are you putting such importance on this girl... Ok so your worried and miserable right now... it will pass... Go out on the weekend. Chill... Find another hottie... She is obviously not caring... Now you show her you don't care... I know!
  • Jun 19, 2008, 12:10 PM
    N0help4u
    Look up activities and events to do in your area this weekend and go out and have a good time. You are right finding out what she is doing only makes the NC and hurt harder to deal with.
  • Jun 21, 2008, 05:48 PM
    talaniman
    Geez sack, stop doing this to yourself, and leave her, and her business alone.

    Have you read the stickies for this forum? Please do, and heed some good suggestions. The links are below in my signature.

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