:( I've been with my husband for seven years now. We used protection only our 3 months of being together. We are so much in love like it was in the beginning. But my problem is I can't get pregnant!! I'm so... scared of the hospital and doctors I can't go see if there is anything worng with me. He hasn't gotten checked since never. But I have had unprotected sex in the pass and I still don't get pregnant.

I just really need to vent out to somebody. I need someone who can say they been through the same. Or someone who has been in my situation. I'm REALLY SCARED!! I KNOW I NEED TO SEE A DOCTOR, BUT THAT IS MY WEEKNESS. I'M SCARED TO FIND OUT WHAT IF I CAN'T HAVE BABY...

You really should check with a doctor.

Think of it this way,if there was something wrong wouldn't you want to know sooner in order for you to get treated if there is a chance it will help you get pregnant?

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by so_sad

:( I've been with my husband for seven years now. We used protection only our 3 months of being together. We are so much in love like it was in the beginning. But my problem is i can't get pregnant!!! i'm so...scared of the hospital and doctors I can't go see if there is anything worng with me. He hasn't gotten checked since never. But I have had unprotected sex in the pass and i still don't get pregnant.

I just really need to vent out to somebody. I need someone who can say they been through the same. Or someone who has been in my situation. I"M REALLY SCARED!!! I KNOW I NEED TO SEE A DOCTOR, BUT THAT IS MY WEEKNESS. I'M SCARED TO FIND OUT WHAT IF I CAN'T HAVE BABY...

---

You and your husband both need to be checked. It often is a relatively simple fix. The initial testing is nothing more than a bit of blood work to start with and a semen sample from him. As was said, better to find out if there is any concern and have it sorted out instead of finding yourself frustrated and disappointed each cycle that passes without achieving pregnancy and not knowing if there is any reason to be concerned or just give it more time. Ask your husband or a friend to go with you, that can help.

Sweetie, what are you going to do if and when you get pregnant? You will need a doctor, or two, and you will need to spend time in the hospital. So you have to get over that fear before even considering becoming pregnant.

Is there something in your past that caused this fear?

First as a women you should be for sure having some annual check ups with your doctor, Are your periods regular, have you worked on specific timming methods to have sex at the most idea times