Hi,
I have a little problem well when me and my boyfriend are having sex I don't like to be on top because I don't get no plesure at all but he sometimes gets mad because he does almost all the work and I sometimes feel really bad but I don't like being on top what should I do to like it or do it better or what positions would he like that would be better then being on top?? :confused:

Well, you can always stimulate yourself while your doing him, or have him stimulate you. He would LOVE that too, I promise! If it's too embarrassing for you to do that, you can always be on top and be facing away from him, which he would like too because he gets a nice view of everything. You can always use a vibrator while doing it too. You could try getting down on it real deep and grinding on him real hard, that can stimulate you real well, pressing your "stuff" against him real hard. A good amount of foreplay can also help a lot in getting you off during sex, so see if he is willing to play around a bit first. Main thing is, don't be nervous, you'll do fine, he'll love the view he'll be getting and if you're into it, he'll love it even more.

Guys like doggy style a lot too, and you can play with yorself in that position easily if the sex itself doesn't get you off.

Mad at you?? Why??
How old are you each, and how long is your sexual relation already going?

Good advice from passmeby : I would follow up on that if I were you !

Success!

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Why don't you enjoy it? Does it just seem awkward to you or is it less physically satisfying?
It's always worth trying new things, see what you like. But it's OK to have limitations too.

How angry does he get? That seems like an overreaction.

If you don't enjoy being on top, try altering your underwear and wear it to bed. Perhaps, you are too self-conscious to enjoy the female atop positions? Make a sexy bra by cutting out the center, and pull your nipple through the hole. Wear crotchless panties. Wear a mask.

Try facing your husband and facing his toes.

Oh you make me laugh choux!!

You forget some time that you are a female. Being on top you feel like a male and pleasure during sex.

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Originally Posted by cherno

You forget some time that you are a female. Being on top you feel like a male and pleasure during sex.

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What? I enjoy being on top and it DEFINITELY doesn't make me feel like a male and enjoy pleasure (presuming you mean like a male) during sex.

Again - what?

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

What? I enjoy being on top and it DEFINITELY doesn't make me feel like a male and enjoy pleasure (presuming you mean like a male) during sex.

Again - what?

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Agreed - being on top "does it" for me... I don't feel like a man whatsoever.

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