Girlfriend of two years and space
I need some help. My girlfriend and I have been together for over two years. I am 21 and she is 22. We broke up about 10 months ago and were apart for two months. But, this is not the problem. Instead she told me tonight that I do not give her enough "Space". This was very upsetting to me because I have felt that recently I have been giving her space. This has been a constant complaint of hers for years. I do not know how to give her more space. Currently, we only see each other three nights a week, and, we only talk on the phone for a few minutes a night. I am absolutely crazy about her. I love her very much. But, I feel that I am not getting what I need from the relationship. In the last six months we have only had sex 5 or 6 times. I have told her that this is not working for me and at 21 it is a serious problem. She informed me tonight that the problem is she is frustrated over our relationship. I do not know how to give her the space that she needs. I want to so that we can stay together. But, I just don't know how. Anyone who has a suggestion please respond.