I have been friends with this girl since I was twelve we are both 27 now and at one time dealing with men who were best friends her relationship with her guy friend ended and it wasn't planned on her part while mine has flourished and seems to be getting better but my man told me that my so called friend is not my friend that she has been saying things about me and even told the guy she used to deal with my man business that I told her. I know I shouldn't have told hern but hey I thought she was a friend remember we have been friends for over ten year, I asked her about it the other day and she denied it and said she doesn't know what he could be talking about... what hurts is that I believe my man.. what do you think?

If the issue divulged is important to you, you should face them in front of you and see whos telling the truth. You love ur man and its not surprising you beleive in him. However, if your friend is with you for so long most likely you know if she have an ability to keep secret and tell truth 99% of a time.

Maybe you should be telling her your secrets.