It seems as if just the sound of my voice irritates him he never talks to me anymore or have sex. We used to have sex at least three to four times a week when we weren't living together I couldn't keep him off me now it's once a week and I usually inititate it. I try to do everything in my power to make his life a little easier by doing my womanly duties as some people will say I cook try to keep it clean give him oral sex iron his clothes just anything I can do but he always has a problem with me whether it's my tone of voice or how I said something or some of the decisions I make he says that I'm too sensitive I need to stop acting like a little girl but I really feel he doesn't want to be with me or he is ing someone else... what do you think"

Have you tried communicating with him?
And how about his duties to you? Does he give you what you want instead of you giving all the time?

Every relationship should be two sided. Seems like you are the only one trying. I think you may be trying too hard. Something is wrong and you need to have a sit down talk with him. If you think he is going to leave you, he probably will. Change your thought process. Just think of it as going through your growing pains of learning to live together. Maybe that is the problem; living together without being married. I think he has his cake and wants to eat it too. Living with someone is different so you need to ask him what is making him so distant. Don't hold that conversation in your home. Go to a quiet place such as a park and have a picnic where you can be alone and really let him know how you are feeling. All the best.

You're not married, right? Just living together now?

Well, if you looked at moving in together as less of a "convenience" thing and more of a "relationship-growth experiment" thing, then you could call this a "failed growth experiment" and fix it. Right? Does that make sense?

Any chance of that happening?

How old are you?
How long have you been together?
How long have you been living together?
Are there children involved?

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Originally Posted by talaniman

How old are you?
How long have you been together?
How long have you been living together?
Are there children involved?

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I'm 27 we have been seeing each other since 2002 and we just became exclusive a couple of months ago I know it' sounds bad but hey it's the truth and we have been living together for two months and I have one daughter who lives with us and he has two daughters that live with their mom

At best he is an inconsiderate boob who needs to be put in his place and why you take that kind of treatment without standing up for yourself is beyond me.

Or you are needy and insecure.

Which is it??