So long story short... I have had an off again on again relationship with this guy for several years now. I within the past 5months broke off a horrible relationship with my boyfriend and am just kind of doing my own thing for right now at least.

My question lies in the fact. Two nights ago, this guy ( who I mentioned above) and I hooked up for the first time in a long time again. I wasn't hesitant at all about it.. you know I knew the territory and him, and I wanted to, because it is GREAT sex ( safe of course) but GREAT!!
To my surprise though, after some causal foreplay not to be grafic, but he was inside me for literally two seconds and was done.

This was typically not him at all Someone that used to be at least 40 minutes with me.

What happened?
Was it me?
What do you guys think

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Originally Posted by bryt

So long story short... I have had an off again on again relationship with this guy for several years now. I within the past 5months broke off a horrible relationship with my boyfriend and am just kinda doing my own thing for right now at least.

My question lies in the fact. Two nights ago, this guy ( who I mentioned above) and I hooked up for the first time in a long time again. I wasnt hesitant at all about it.. you know I knew the territory and him, and I wanted to, because it is GREAT sex ( safe of course) but GREAT!!!!
To my suprise though, after some causal foreplay not to be grafic, but he was inside me for litterally two seconds and was done.

This was typically not him at all Someone that used to be at least 40 mins with me.

What happend?
Was it me?
What do you guys think

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Couple things at play here... maybe he hasn't had sex for a good while and even though its you have been with him before its still been a long while so while its not new girl excitement its not exactly I've been doing this for 30 years excitement.

And speeking as a guy.. the first time with a woman is not going to be a good showcase of your lasting skills. My first time with a woman was allways the shortest session. And like I said... someone you haven't been with for a long long time still qualifies.

I wouldn't expect a man to go more than five minutes vaginally; any more is too much. Too unnatural. JUST MY OPINION, FOLKS.

I agree with Smoothy, it is frequently super stimulating for a man the first time with a woman, and you kind of qualify in this case. :)

Don't complicate it. He was physically and mentally primed for the moment.

Until he repeatedly cannot or does not sustain and hold back to please you why spend two more seconds of your life worrying about a two second orgasm?

I just hope he wasn't DONE done, and turned around and gave back to you too :)