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  • Jun 15, 2008, 11:05 PM
    barbiechick123
    My own Cousin became a monster and is dragging me with her!
    Okay, so school ended for us already, so I am spending a week at my aunts house with my cousin [who is the same age as me] I thought this would be the funnest thing ever, but she's a complete slut! She's been dragging me to clubs and using fake IDs and MADE me try pot and almost pushed me to make out with some gross 25 year old horndog who she calls her like "bff". Uggh I hate this, but the worst part is, she said that if I told anyone what we really do when we say were "catching a movie" she would "slit my throat and eat it without any remorse" Im intimidated and I feel like a slave!

    Oh and on top of that I brought my cat, and she carelessly spat on it and kicked it, now I haven't seen him in 3 days! What the f****!



    Oh and I cnt call my parents because their out on vacation. ouughghvhdhf;asdhj
  • Jun 15, 2008, 11:40 PM
    starbuck8
    So let me understand this. She DRAGGED you to the club. So she literally bound and gagged you without your consent, and put you in the trunk of a car. She FORCED you to pose for a picture, to make a fake ID. She physically held you down and FORCED you to inhale, in order to MAKE you smoke pot. She tried to PUSH you, to make out with a 25 yr old gross horn dog. Was she on top of the both of you? "BUT THE WORST PART IS" if I say what we really do, she will slit my throat, and eat it.

    You are writing all of this, and you haven't seen your cat in 3 days?? You've got to be kidding me! Where the hell is you Aunt, and why aren't you out looking for your cat? It's funny how everyone is FORCING you to do all of these things, and the thing that seems to be the last on your list is your cat!

    I haven't heard you mention anything about your Aunt, or that you have called for help from your family. You have taken part in the things that your cousin is doing! Simple fix, but I highly doubt this will happen. Tell your Aunt you want to go home, go and FIND your cat, call a family member and say you want to leave. Simple!

    Unless you were kidnapped, or bound and gagged, and taken against your will... you own this one yourself.
  • Jun 16, 2008, 12:06 AM
    JBeaucaire
    You're not as weak as you're portraying yourself, right? You're not, not really... right?

    Your cousin's threat doesn't REALLY worry you at all does it? Not really? Maybe she just knows YOU think you are weak, but we know you really aren't, RIGHT? So, she's mistaken.

    Next time she does something you don't ascribe to, excuse yourself to the restroom, and catch a cab home. Don't worry about the cost, the money you AREN'T spending on drinks the rest of the night should cover it. Plus, you only do it once.

    When Auntie asks why you're no longer going out with cousin, it's simple: "She's far too wild for my tastes. How about you and I go shopping tonight instead, or see a movie?"

    See, no information given, and if she inquires more, you CAN tell her, "Cousin threatened my life, so I think I'll just keep it to myself, ok? Now, which movie did we settle on?"

    When cousin tries to corner you, laugh hysterically and call your parents in front of her, "Guess what cousin likes to do when she goes out? No, not even close. No, guess again. Nope, you're wrong. She does drugs in clubs and slobbers all over dirty old men. Can I come be with you guys now? She threatened to slit my throat and eat my heart? Yes, I believe she's a danger to me, can I come be with you now instead?"

    When you hang up, remember to keep smiling eerily. Laugh psychotically and bang your head on the wall, then stumble out of the room, "She hit me...she hit me! Oh my, she hit me!"

    Simply put, crazy sometimes needs to be met with fearless truth and a little crazy of your own. And you need to get out. She threatened your life.
  • Jun 16, 2008, 10:03 AM
    barbiechick123
    Lol your answer made me laugh, thanks for the advice. Ill try to use it, if I'm brave enuff.

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