okay so my boyfriend and I broke up about a month and a half ago. We talked a little after but then we stopped for about 3 weeks. Then one night he randomly commented one of my pictures. He said he commented it because of what I was doing in the picture (it was something we did together) then he was saying stuff like we need to hang out soon. But then the next day we barely talked. Is he playing around with me or does he want me back? And what do I do!

It could be several things, but few of these things it could be are good for you. Stop putting thought into anything he says. If he's ever serious as a suitor again, he'll show up officially. Don't try to "read into" anything. Let it be. When he's serious, you'll know.

Until he does more than talk, I wouldn't give it a thought. Never try to read peoples minds over comments you don't really understand, so don't waste time with this.

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Originally Posted by JBeaucaire

It could be several things, but few of these things it could be are good for you. Stop putting thought into anything he says. If he's ever serious as a suitor again, he'll show up officially. Don't try to "read into" anything. Let it be. When he's serious, you'll know.

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He did talk to me though. The night after he made the comment he told me why and said that he wants to hang out

Well I guess what is both your ages, different advice at 15 than I would at 24. But it may well be he is loney and "someone" is better than no one right now. This happens a lot in couples first break up.

He talked but until he shows consistency and follow up you need to do as the others said and let it go in one ear and out the other or he will only get your hopes up for possibly nothing. He could just be expressing the emotions of going through a break up and not entirely over you yet. He may want you as only a friend but hasn't figured out how to adjust down to that yet. If you get your hopes up and believe you might actually get back together before he makes a clear decision you are in for a roller coaster ride on his emotions so ignore his words until he backs them up with a definite decision and not double mindedness.

I agree with all the people that said "don't read too much into it" he posted a comment on your photo. He didn't make an effort to call you or make plans or anything. Yeah, you said after he left you the comment he said why, but did he say "hey, lets hang out saturday?" or give you a specific time he thought that the two of you should hang out?

I say "we should hang out soon" to all the people I run into and nothing ever becomes of it. Now if I really want to hang out with the person like an old friend I'll say "Hey, what are you doing this weekend? You wanna grab coffee or something?" And then go from there on picking a day.

If he wants to get back with you, make him put some effort into winning you back. For the mean time, ignore him unless he makes an honest effort.

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

well I guess what is both your ages, different advice at 15 than I would at 24. But it may well be he is loney and "someone" is better than no one right now. This happens alot in couples first break up.

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Were both 16