I broke up with my boyfriend 2 years ago.
Because I was afraid I was going to get to close and then loose him.
And now I've wanted him back.
But he's officially mad at me because I broke his heart.
And I think I might be in love with him.
I dream about him, I think about him, I see his name in the clouds.
You name it I've seen it.
It was in 6th grade.
And now I'm in 8th grade.
And I REALLY regret breaking up with him.
And now he's going out with my friend.
And every time I see him with her,
He always stands in front of me.
Holding onto her.
And if I move he moves too.
He always has to stand in front of me with her.
And I've told him I still had feeling for him and everything.
But he refuses to call or text me back.
And he's sending me mixed signals in whether he's still interested or not.
I really need help.
Please.
I cry over him.
Day and night.

Hi Courtney.
You dated him when you were 12? I think you're taking this a bit too seriously.
Ok, a few things here. Obviously he isn't interested anymore, and as you're the one who initiated the breakup, he has the moral high ground.
Secondly, he's with your friend, if you have ANY respect for her, you won't even TRY anything on her boyfriend. You had your chance, you made the choice, you have to live with the consequences.
Thirdly, you must be what... 13 or 14? Your life is hardly over. I'm sure there are plenty of guys around. And believe it or not, chances are he's not the only one for you. You might think you're in love, but I can guarantee you're not. Life WILL go on and you'll eventually find someone who you're really compatible with.

Take care,
Kal

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Originally Posted by Courtney13

i broke up with my boyfriend 2 years ago.
because i was afraid i was going to get to close and then loose him.
and now I've wanted him back.
but he's officially mad at me because i broke his heart.
and i think i might be in love with him.
i dream about him, i think about him, i see his name in the clouds.
you name it I've seen it.
it was in 6th grade.
and now I'm in 8th grade.
and i REALLY regret breaking up with him.
and now hes going out with my friend.
and every time i see him with her,
he always stands in front of me.
holding onto her.
and if i move he moves too.
he always has to stand in front of me with her.
and I've told him i still had feeling for him and everything.
but he refuses to call or text me back.
and hes sending me mixed signals in whether hes still interested or not.
i really need help.
please.
i cry over him.
day and night.

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I know I'm young and stuff.
But still every guy I look at I see him.
Every time I try to have a relationship, I think of him.
And then I end it.
I need him.
But he still acts like he loves me.
We're friends.
And he's always around me when he can.
And if his girlfriend is around, then he has to be in front of me the whole time holding onto her.
He tries to make matters worst for me.

Hi Courtney,
Everyone experiences similar emotions to which you are feeling, so you do not have to feel so alone. It is a positive fact that you are able to step back from any situation and realize what has gone on, such as that the boy feels upset and so on. But for your own happiness you need to understand that things in life such as a failure or trials are only a stepping stone to something better. In every situation there is a chance to grow and learn so my advice is to do so, and understand you have many more years to learn about your life.

I dated when I was 9 but OMG HE STILL LIKES YOU I JUST BET HES USING HER TO GET YOU JEULUS! I know he likes you no douht don't cry he still got feelings for you I had eperiences trust me!!

People often have feelings for their x loves even when the x treated them really bad
it is also easy to romanticize the good times you had together so it is natural to have these feelings. As long as he is with the other girl you really need to let it go. IF and when he ever breaks up with her you can tell him that you have gotten wiser since your grade school days and it was the dumbest mistake you ever made. But you need to not say or do anything until they are not together. Don't even go around him or text him because the more you do the more he will resent you for not respecting his wishes.