I guess no one knows where to begin when telling strangers your problems but since we cant; be seen it's kind of strange to feel like you can open up.. my situation turns to the worse evey time I think about it. Recently divorced and started a "relationship" that I thought would last "for ever"... need less to say "for ever lasted 10 months. One day I came back home and I realized my partner had left. With out a word with out an explanation a letter or ANYTHING! : ( found out 4 days later after crying rivers and oceans an become desperate to find an answer.. he had gone back to his country of birth wich is VERY, VERY, VERY .(did I sauy VERY) far away. : (... I guess my question is WHY? WHY DID HE LEAVE ME WHEN THE DAY BEFORE HE SAID HE LOVE ME? WHEN HE FELT OUR BABY KICK AND HE HUGGED ME AD LOOKED AT MY EYES AND Didn't MENTION A WORD ABOUT SEPARATING OR LEAVING? WHY DIDNT; HE TALK TO ME BEFORE LEAVING. WHY? WHY? WHY?

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Originally Posted by maribelacuna

I guess no one knows where to begin when telling strangers your problems but since we cant; be seen it's kinda strange to feel like you can open up.. my situation turns to the worse evey time i think about it. Recently divorced and started a "relationship" that i thought would last "for ever"... need less to say "for ever lasted 10 months. one day i came back home and i realized my partner had left. with out a word with out an explanation a letter or ANYTHING!. : ( found out 4 days later after crying rivers and oceans an become desperate to find an answer .. he had gone back to his country of birth wich is VERY, VERY, VERY .(did i sauy VERY) far away. : (.... i guess my question is WHY?. WHY DID HE LEAVE ME WHEN THE DAY BEFORE HE SAID HE LOVE ME? WHEN HE FELT OUR BABY KICK AND HE HUGGED ME AD LOOKED AT MY EYES AND DIDN;T MENTION A WORD ABOUT SEPARATING OR LEAVING? WHY DIDNT; HE TALK TO ME BEFORE LEAVING. WHY? WHY? WHY?

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Afraid of commitment?

He knew he was leaving and NOT talking to you about it ahead of time made it easier on himself. He didn't have to stand there and listen to you fall apart crying "why, why, why?"

The decision to end a relationship is mostly a selfish choice, though many times it is also the correct choice. I am sorry you will be dealing the with the birth of the baby alone.

Keep this in mind in the future. A sexual relationship leads to babies, and without a ring and home... you're playing with fire having sex while you're still single. I'm sorry to say it now, since I know YOU realize this more than anyone else, but make sure you are prepared in the future to not have a repeat of this scenario.

My guess is that he wasn't ready 2 have a baby. And you guys shouldn't be having sex with each other within 10 months. But that guy is an idiot for doing what he did. And trust me I'm a guy and most guys are idiots I here there conversations every day and there *****s I don't y but they. I truly feel sorry for you.

Sorry for your loss, but he is a selfish coward who took the easy way out.