Boyfriend Insecure about Male Friends
I have been dating this guy for over 5 years now. He has a history of being an impulsive gambler. He would spend hundreds of dollars in 1 night. About 2 years ago we built a house together and married under the impression he had left that life behind. Everything went great at first until I found out his family had been covering up his gambling habit for over 3 months. He refused to get help, so eventually we divorced. During our time apart I "played the field." Part of the reason was to see if someone better was out there, part of the reason was because I was so angry at him. Over this time I made many new friends (some being male). About 10 months ago we got back together. He had quite gamgling and was going to meetings. I moved back in about 2 months ago. Last night one of my male friends (who I hadn't talked to in a very long time) text me. It was his birthday, so we exchanged a couple texts. I told my boyfiend about the occasion and he FLIPED. He wants me to chose... either my single life (AKA. Having male freinds) or my life with him. He then stormed off to the bar until 3am. This morning I was informed by a family friend that he was gambling at the bar last night. I just don't know if this relationship is actually savable or if it was a figment of our imagination.