Originally Posted by Princess-IMYM
Me and Ree are closer than molecules in a solid (the only thing i could think of that was incredibly close) Her parents split last year (i think) and her boyfriend dumped her, so she went into depression and self harmed, and started smoking.
She got out of that pit and has never, ever self harmed again, and she's happy and eccentric just like me once more, however she still smoked.
I didnt mind, since she never smoked around us and she didnt seem that much different, but lately she's been acting strange.
She leaves our group of friends spontaneously, to go and scrounge for cigarettes from some of her 'sort-of' friends at school, and then when we go out, she drags us to a smoking area and has 1-3 cigarets in a row, when we leave, about 15 minutes later she drags us back.
She's become addicted, and thats not what im majorly concerned about, because i've tried and tried to get her to stop but she won't, what i AM concerned about is that fact she isnt even bothering to come over and say hello to me anymore, she's just going for a smoke every chance she gets, (at school) this is really making me distraught because we're so close (we call each other wife), our friendship is the only thing that makes me happy enough to keep up my usual fun-ness, today i was irritated and depressed because she hadnt even bothered to say hello.
Im not clingy (i hope) but if i just got a "hi" from her when i said hello, i would have been set for the day.
What should i do about this? I know she still loves me (friend way) but it's getting ridiculous! She told us she wants a short, but good life : Death at 40. drugs, smoking and sex. thats what she wants, and she's only 14!:(