I have been separated from My Spouse For 2 Years ,When we Separated HE Agreed To Pay me 500 month Being That IM Disabled he said he would take care of me, With the HOPES of working Out our Differences I Have Not heard from him in over 1 and half years . He found me a small apt . And I had to go on welfare ,we had no children together but were married (together for ) 10 years I know when he passes I can get help from his social security, he wrote out A Agreement that he will pay me 500 monthly( he never has paid me a penny) and a van( I have) and some furniture( I have), Can I enforce the agreement? Signed by him?to make him pay back and future support? IM not sure what my rights are I don't even know where he is at this time. I feel like he got what he wanted to get rid of the disabled wife and get on with his single life he had always put me down for that, and I was always considered to be a burden to him thanks west Virgina:confused:

Welcome to AMHD. You will need to find where he resides so that you can get personal service (he must be handed the papers if he won't sign for them) if you ever hope to be able to enforce whatever obligations the court may put on him. You have a claim for property settlement and alimony, as does he. You may be able to get a divorce without personal service, but probably no other relief. On a related issue: can you file for social security disability based upon your marriage to him, now?