How to become the bette girlfriend to him?

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Originally Posted by NTOMBI

How to become the bette girlfriend to him?

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Could you explain the matter in little detail?

If there are no problems at the moment, you just want to be a good g/f, remember the basics:

• You're problems are not his, don't put them on his head
• His life isn't yours, control him at your own peril
• Your life should be full and rich and involved and ambitious and NOT wrapped around him. He needs a woman who is interesting and involved in things so he can be proud of her.
• Jealousy is a waste of energy.
• Trust without reservation.
• He only changes, if ever, by unknowable inner reasons. Accept him for who he is.
• He's not a verbal creature, so trust his actions first and foremost. He may not say "I love you' but will show it in 100s of ways. Believe in what he does.

Is is being a good boyfriend to you and treating you how he should?