OK me and my boyfriend have been dating for three months this girl tells me she saw him holding hands with another girl and said she wasn't trying to break us up or anything.well I got really upset and called him and he said that it wasn't true I feel like I should believe him but I just don't know:confused:

Trust is the most important thing in a relationship, if you don't trust him, then maybe it's time to find someone you do trust. Just my opinion.

Good luck.

Trust is important.. but don't always believe what other people say.. get to the bottom of it but if he infactically denies it, then you should trust him.. If he is a cheater and he will continue to cheat, you will find out soon enough (eg. You will catch him with your own eyes)... and then you can dump him!

"Believe only half of what you see
and nothing that you hear."
--- Dinah Mulock Craik

"Trust automatically and with eagerness.
Distrust only as a last resort and in the face
of irrefutable evidence."
- Jerry Beaucaire