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:confused: OK I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months about to be 6.I want our relationship to stay strong but were having problems ever sense we had sex everything went wrong.we fight everyday about everything.we never stop.hes over protective.he dosen't say he loves me anymore.I just don't know what to do.please help!:(
I need the age-group, please.
Just curious, what do you think is happening?
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The age-group is important because of the level of maturity and experience in communication - and not just the sex part.
OK, first of all, when questioned here, we answer here - there is nothing to hide...Quote:
Originally Posted by PrincessChu-chi1312
Now, you still didn't tell me what you think is happening.
Unfortunately, boys that age, when they get what they want and feel that their girlfriend now 'belongs' to them, they act differently.
If you feel he no longer respects you or treats you as you think he should, you need to have a talk with him. Tell him what you expect from this relationship and if he is of a different opinion, then I would tell him to go his way and that you will go your way.
If he cannot take you out among his friends, family or only wants to be with you to have sex, then he is using you and you don't deserve that. If saying he loves you before you finally went to bed with him was easy, and he no longer feels the need to say it now, then he has no respect for you and just plain lied to get what he wanted.
It's hard and it hurts when a guy treats us like that, and unfortunately this does happen to a lot of girls, but it does not mean that we have to continue to let them be jerks. So, tell him how you feel, and if he leaves, you're a lot better off without him.
Good luck dear, and keep us posted.
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If you have to question whether he loves you or not.. then you're really not in a good place.. if your man still loves you.. you wouldn't have to ask., it'll be clear as day.
The problems you're experiencing are not caused by nor related to having sex. That was purely coincidental in your thinking.
Your problems are caused by each of your selfishnesses and insecurities being held over each other's head like a rain cloud.
Stop raining on each other. Practice treating each other with the respect and graciousness you give to strangers automatically. See if things don't improve then.
Of course, you don't have sex with strangers, so you might have to stop that for awhile, too, to get things back on a polite and friendly course.
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