My boyfriend and I was dating a year than I dumped him, but after a year I took him back, but the problem is that he is accussing me of cheating on him with every guy he sees me with. I really like him but I'm really getting fed-up with this. Should I try and make things work or should I just dump him again?

I would just let him go. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life under that cloud of suspicion? Trust me, it's only going to get worse, not better.

Dump him again, and don't take him back.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Dump him again, and don't take him back.

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What he said

I agree,. He's not going to change and things will get harder.. Let him go

I'm going to go against the mold here. As someone who has reformed his jealousy, all it takes is some hard work and dedication to conquer it. It's a long long long! Battle to fight within himself. I bet he uses the line "I trust you, I just don't trust the other guys" that's bullsh*t right there. Tell him to see a therapist and read some books on jealousy. I know of some great ones if you need any suggestions.

With all that being said, if he won't admit he has a problem or won't get help. Then drop him, there is no way he will change on his own. He may mask the changes(guilty as charged) for a few weeks until something else changes his mind. I could go into detail about how bad I was, but peoples opinion of me on the boards(nice guy) might change(possessive as*hole) ha ha