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  • Jun 8, 2008, 05:20 PM
    levipuppy
    First kiss
    Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 1 week
    And I don't know if I should kiss him on the lips or on the cheek?
    Can someone help
  • Jun 8, 2008, 05:43 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    How old are you? I would do what is most comfortable... don't do something just because other people are, or tell you to.
  • Jun 8, 2008, 07:04 PM
    jrsg
    Wow, I just saw on your profile that your 11 years old...

    I didn't even have my first girlfriend until 14. Well, anyway, do what you feel most comfortable with.
    Don't kiss him because you see it in the movies, or hear about it in songs. Do it because you want to feel closer to him, and want a stronger relationship. If that is what you want, then do whatever you feel comfortable with.

    ... kids are growing up so quick these days
    I say that, even though I'm 16. :)
  • Jun 8, 2008, 07:09 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    I was 11 when me and my first boyfriend started dating. We were 13 when we shared our first kiss. We were together for 7 years, until we graduated high school and started separate lives.

    I would honestly suggest doing what is most comfortable for the both of you. If you are worried about when the right time is, wait for him to intiate the kiss, then that worry goes away.
  • Jun 8, 2008, 07:37 PM
    koolhawk
    If your ready give it a shot
  • Jun 8, 2008, 08:03 PM
    jrsg
    Wow, ChihauhuaMomma, your first relationship lasted longer than most marriages...
    That's quite the achievement.
  • Jun 8, 2008, 08:16 PM
    Baby-_-Girl-_-19
    My question is what is causing your uncertianty; from the way you worded your question it seems to me you're trying to base your decision on what other people think; not neccisarily us on here but just in general. Honestly I will tell you like I've told others on here, if you're asking like that you already know the awnser as for what's best for you but your STILL uncertian. Do what's best for you, if you think you should kiss him on the lips be my guest, if you'd rather just kiss him on the cheek that's fine to; when it comes to ANY type of relationship no matter how old you are, go at the pace your comfortable with; heck if your this conflicted maybe neither is a good solution maybe you should just wait it out for a little bit and see how much you REALLY like this boy.
  • Jun 9, 2008, 02:54 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jrsg
    Wow, ChihauhuaMomma, your first relationship lasted longer than most marriages...
    Thats quite the achievment.

    Haha, yeah, high school sweethearts... awwwwww...
  • Jun 9, 2008, 10:40 PM
    andy305mia
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by levipuppy
    me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 1 week
    and i dont know if i should kiss him on the lips or on the cheek?
    can someone help

    Lol this is puppy love you got to kiss him its going to be the happiest day of your life when you kiss him on the lips.
  • Jun 9, 2008, 11:15 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by andy305mia
    lol this is puppy love u got to kiss him its going to be the happiest day of ur life wen u kiss him on the lips.

    LOL... I highly doubt that, maybe her life so far, and that's still a stretch.
  • Jun 9, 2008, 11:32 PM
    JBeaucaire
    I think you should kiss him on the altar.
  • Jun 10, 2008, 12:04 AM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JBeaucaire
    I think you should kiss him on the altar.

    Are you suggesting 11-year olds get marrried? ;)
  • Jun 10, 2008, 08:22 AM
    JBeaucaire
    No, silly... (pokes you)... I'm being funny and saying wait and kiss your man at the altar when you ARE getting married years from now... I know that ain't going to happen, but you know me, no joke too small... I thought it was cute play on words.

    Kiss 'em on the cheek?
    Kiss 'em on the mouth?
    No, kiss 'em on the patio.
  • Jun 10, 2008, 10:48 AM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    I know JB! I was playing along! To the OP, like I said, just go with the flow.
  • Jul 9, 2008, 03:35 PM
    Alty
    Eleven year olds kissing? Seriously folks, I'm moving to that cabin in the woods, taking my 9 year old turns 10 in September and my 5 year old 6 in August and moving where there are no neighbors. Home schooling, and isolation until they're 18! This scares the crap out of me.

    OP you're eleven, go play hopscotch or skip or something, NO KISSING! :)
  • Jul 9, 2008, 08:18 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    LOL, hopscotch is rad!! 1
  • Jul 9, 2008, 08:23 PM
    Alty
    Hopscotch rocks! :)
  • Jul 9, 2008, 08:24 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    What was that toy that you twist around your ankle and jump over? I loved those things! 1
  • Jul 9, 2008, 08:30 PM
    Alty
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    I remember those, they're called many things, look like this;

    Attachment 10043

    OP, buy one, use it, no kissing, wait a few years. :)
  • Jul 9, 2008, 08:35 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    YES! I loved those things. I want one. I liked the one that had a counter on it. I would make it surpass 5,000 every day. I loved those!

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