Behing harassed by apartment manager.
The manager of my apartment complex called me, yelling about persons living in my apartment that were not on the lease and that next time "one of my boyfriends curses out another resident" that it would be on my shoulders. She stated that a neighbor of mine, not the one involved, had called in to report that I had boyfriends living here that were not on my lease and that one of them had cursed the neighbor across from me out when he asked us to quiet down, over a month ago. (Really, how much sense would it make that I would have boyfriends living with me!) To which a gentleman from my apartment replied "What the ---- kind of plant is that?!" (Again, I ask how much sense does this make? Someone asks me to be quite and I respond with that?) What had really happened was that a friend of mine that had helped me move in stepped out side to smoke when he noticed a weird object on my neighbor's balcony. When said neighbor came outside, my friend simply asked the man what the object on his balcony was. To which he responded by asking my friend inside his home to see it! Since this occurred, many of the other tenants in the complex have told me about different times the same woman had harassed them. Most recently, one had paid her rent with a personal check only to receive an eviction notice within in the last few days for failure to pay rent on time, which she had. I realize there isn't much I can do about this, but any advice would help.
But most importantly, I have a boyfriend that sleeps over frequently, sometimes for consecutive days. There have also been a couple times that I allowed him to stay here while I went into work for maybe 3 hours. For this reason I have allowed him to keep a few items over here, as well as I have in his home. Since she accused me of having people living here that were not on the lease, I am afraid to have him over at all. Do I need to have him remove his socks and toothbrush and strictly spend the night at his place?