I was stroking my boyfriend's genitalia but I wasn't actually touching them. I was stroking his jeans. He said that only his underwear was wet after that and not his jeans. Then I went to sit on his lap, facing him though so I had my legs wrapped around his waist and I had my clothes on by the way (shirt, shorts, and underwear). I think our private parts were touching when we were sitting like that but I'm not sure. Anyway, I was wondering if his sperm could have swum through his boxers and jeans and through my shorts and underwear to get me pregnant.

After, I went to the bathroom and found of that my underwear and shorts were wet. I don't know if that was from me being aroused or was it the sperm because he said that his pants were not wet.

It's been almost a month and I've been really stressed out about this. Also, my period hasn't come yet and I'm very worried. Am I pregnant? Is there a possibility?

-Stressed

Your period could be late for a number of reasons.. one of which being you're so stressed...

It's HIGHLY unlikely you're pregnant after just this heavy petting incident between the two of you... it's not impossible to get pregnant without direct penetration of his penis; but you two were still clothed during... so I think you're fine and should stop worrying...

If it helps, have him buy condoms and use them even when you're just making out like that... that way there's no worries!

I hope you're right. I really want to believe you are. I've been stressed. I haven't really felt different or anything. I've just been checking if I was getting any bigger...

I think before you have any sexual encounters again, you really need to read up on your sexual education, or you WILL end up with an unwanted pregnancy... or worse! It doesn't sound like you have a lot of knowledge with how things work sexually. I'm not trying to sound harsh, but you really do need to either talk to someone knowledgeable, or do your own research. I would recommend that you do this before you get caught in a similar situation.

Sperm will not crawl through clothing, and leap into your vagina, and swim their way to to meet the egg. I personally think that you should not even be thinking about sex, whether it be heavy petting or whatever you are doing, until you are older and know about all of the things that can happen, and male/female relationships in general.

Please talk to someone that can give you all of the facts. Ask more questions here, and we will also be happy to answer if we can.

Stop worrying. Unless you are not telling us everything, there is really no chance of you being pregnant!

And of course I have to spread the rep. I agree Starby.

This is quite worrisome, what kind of mis-information is out there that a young girl actually thinks that pregnancy can occur during heavy petting done with 4 layers of clothing on? There is no sperm out there that has the power to go through all that sweetie, trust me on this one.

It's time to find out the facts about sex, pregnancy, std's etc. etc. before you and your boyfriend go to far and you do end up pregnant.

Take care, and read up on sex, obviously they aren't teaching it in school anymore.