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  • Jun 7, 2008, 12:30 PM
    iloveme6
    Why am I having a problen getting pregnant
    I want to get pregnant but I can't I have been trying for 4 1/2 years?

    Me and my boyfriend have been talking for a while now. June 2 we started having sex he has been sleepy and so has I.
    I also been having pain in my stomach. Can I be pregnant?

    I have been having cramps for 2 days and my period is supposed to be coming down but there's no blood. I cnt even sleep that's how bad they are. I don't have a normal period it comes dow all over a month. My last period was May 20-23 and it now June 18 can I be pregnant?

    It Smells Burnt and I have brown discharge.

    Okay Me And My Boyfriend Have Been Together 3-4 Months And Hes Always Chatn Online And Have A lot Of Females Calling Hes Phone.


    When I Come Ova To His House We Always Fuss About The Girls, Then He Tell Ne How Much He Loves Me And Tries To Give Me What Eva I Want. Last Night I Told Him If He Don't Stop Ima Leave Him And He Promise Not To Do It Again For The 4th Time.


    CAn I Get Some Advice On What To Do Please?
  • Jun 7, 2008, 01:42 PM
    DoulaLC
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by iloveme6
    I want to get pregnant but i can't i have been trying for 4 1/2 years?

    I am assuming you have spoken to your doctor already, but if not, it is time to do so. It is important that you and your partner both have some testing done. If you both have already had testing, and all appears to be fine, it may just be a matter of time. There are incidences of infertility that can't be explained. Some women do find themselves pregnant out of the blue after years of trying. I have had a few in my classes who even were on fertility meds for awhile, decided it just wasn't going to happen, accepted that they were not going to have children of their own, and then years later find they are pregnant.
  • Jun 8, 2008, 07:07 PM
    Credendovidis
    Only higher powers - if they exist - can know that...
    It will only be possible to see that in a couple of weeks.
    Why did you not use prophilactics?
    Why didn't you go for the "morning after pill"?
    After just 6 days your body is not yet ready to hurt due to pregnancy!

    ;)
  • Jun 9, 2008, 12:57 PM
    justcurious55
    Anytime you have sex you can get pregnant. Contraceptives just make it less likely to happen. And what does him being sleepy have to do with anything??

    And yeah, the above is right, its too soon for you to know yet if you're pregnant or not
  • Jun 9, 2008, 02:33 PM
    DoulaLC
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by iloveme6
    Me and my boyfriend have been talking for a while now. June 2 we started having sex he has been sleepy and so has I.
    i also been having pain in my stomach. Can I be pregnant?

    If you have sex, it is possible to become pregnant. Are you trying to get pregnant... or are you using birth control?
    IF you ovulated right about the time you had the sex... right before, right after, the pain could be from implantation, but the timing would have to have been right on the mark as it takes about a week or so after conception for implantation to occur. There are more likely reasons for the stomach pain, but you'll have to just wait and see. When are you due for your next period? When was your last one?
  • Jun 18, 2008, 10:50 AM
    Rockstar714
    You could, if you've had unprotected sex, but the cramps could be a deficiency of something like calcium or magnesium or something else.
  • Aug 3, 2009, 05:41 PM
    Stratmando

    Missplaced
  • Aug 3, 2009, 06:11 PM
    Alty

    I don't know, but a doctor will. :)
  • Aug 3, 2009, 06:12 PM
    Alty

    It's possible.

    You'll need to wait and then take an hpt, use first morning urine as it's more accurate.

    Good luck.
  • Aug 3, 2009, 06:55 PM
    liz28

    It seems like your uncomfortable with him chatting with other girls. Guess what? You can change that and if can overcome it then your better off without him.

    Also, what is with all this love stuff if you only been with him for 3-4 months?

    Also, can you please not use chat talk and turn off your caps.

    Btw, what your age?
  • Aug 3, 2009, 06:56 PM
    Romefalls19

    Should have left after the first time he promised not to do it, but did it anyway.

    If he's chatting online, and not being a flirt, what's the problem?
  • Aug 3, 2009, 07:56 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    All posts combined to give better idea
  • Aug 3, 2009, 07:57 PM
    Romefalls19

    Now that I have the whole story, I am going back to my corner because this story is way to flawed

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