I got violent with my pregnant girlfriend,I'm so ashamed,I grabbed her by the throat,I've bin violent on 6 or 7 times over our 2 year relationship,never punches just grabs and pushs,odd kix,does this mean I have a problem and need help or is it just a case of 2 people that shudnt be 2getha but stik 2getha,and then suffer the conciequences,I ont no,am so sorry for the things I've dun,I'm so nice natured,wudnt hurt a fly.