My boyfriend and I have been sexually active for a while, and I have a feeling that the normal things we do are starting to get boring... judging the fact he has a hard time keeping it up lately. I do this kissing, licking of the neck and ear, I tease him, I rub him, and every time it leads into the same stuff: the regular "man on top". Even when I am on top, he still does all the work. We preform oral, and we take part in all the "normal" foreplay activities, however, I just feel like we need something new.
I need some ideas on how to spice it up, where I can be in control, and where I can make him want more... We need something fun and exciting to keep the physical aspect of our relationship hot and heavy... I want to surprise him... any ideas?