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  • Jun 3, 2008, 02:04 PM
    RedStang97
    My girlfriend.
    She is very shy and won't let me see her with her clothes off till recently and she won't give me head or even let me eat her out. She ll be on top 2 out of 10 times.. I tell her she's beautiful and the truth about everything. What should I do??
  • Jun 3, 2008, 03:28 PM
    Xrayman
    How about tell us how old you and her are as well as some more descriptions about what you want.
  • Jun 6, 2008, 03:06 PM
    igman
    Yes... more info would be very helpful
  • Jun 8, 2008, 03:58 PM
    Choux
    She knows you are manipulating her, dude. :)
  • Jun 8, 2008, 04:00 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    There are many who do not like oral sex, so you have to respect her choice. But also it may be she is not ready for the relationship yet either
  • Jun 8, 2008, 05:21 PM
    Credendovidis
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by RedStang97
    she is very shy and wont let me see her with her clothes off till recently and she wont give me head or even let me eat her out. she ll be on top 2 out of 10 times..i tell her shes beautiful and the truth about everything. what should i do???

    ... "she wont give me head or even let me eat her out"... Is that a new type of slang American English ?
    "she wont give me head" : you mean felatio?
    "she wont let me eat her out" : you mean lick her clitoris to let her come?

    ... "she ll be on top 2 out of 10 times"... What are you complaining about ? Not enough? Too often?

    Indeed it would be helpful to provide more details, specially your and her age...

    :)
  • Jun 10, 2008, 07:50 PM
    lella87
    You can tell your girlfriend 1 million times that she's beautiful, and whether your being truthful or not, until she believes it herself and is comfortable with herself, she isn't going to let you near her.

    My advice would be to take it easy and not pressure her. If you love her would you want to force her into something she doesn't want to do? Sounds like she needs some time to trust you and get comfortable with you. So be patient and understanding.
  • Jun 11, 2008, 01:15 PM
    kp2171
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Credendovidis
    ... "she wont give me head or even let me eat her out"... Is that a new type of slang American English ?
    "she wont give me head" : you mean felatio?
    "she wont let me eat her out" : you mean lick her clitoris to let her come?

    ... "she ll be on top 2 out of 10 times" ... What are you complaining about ? Not enough? Too often?

    Indeed it would be helpfull to provide more details, specially your and her age ...

    :)

    It is slang, but none of his language is new in the US. Its been around for forever. Not particularly the best choice in words, on the vulgar side, but its not like he invented locker room talk. That said, when posting on a forum with people from around the world, its better to stay with better known phrases.

    And its spelled fellatio since you are advising him on his grammar. Fellatio and cunnilingus aren't exactly at the forefront of use most of the time here. Oral is probably a better understood term. Nevertheless... his crude talk doesn't change his question.

    He's not complaining about her being on top too much or too much sex. He is complaining because she won't take that position. Don't know about you, but its great to see a woman in that position, especially since its one of the better positions for the woman to take for her own pleasure. He'd like to see her take that position and she won't, likely due to the shyness he states in the original post.
  • Jun 11, 2008, 01:48 PM
    Synnen
    I'd still like to know how old the OP and his girlfriend are.

    I'm betting she's pretty young, all things considered.
  • Jun 11, 2008, 05:05 PM
    AlwaysWriting
    First and foremost, quit being to pushy! How can you gain someone's trust or sexual appetite when you're so demanding!

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