I like to go out and have fun from time to time.but its not that often because I be busy.when I am at places that may have a lot of people like the mall,or casino,or bar I seemed to be taken out of my comfront zone.something I don't won't to admit.but I mite be just a little shy and I know just quiet at times but I choose not to be.I don't know what it is.I just be wanting to relax and have fun.kinda like I'm still in my shell.mab that I'm worrying about what other people think of me instead of having fun, or thinking about how I look like a teenager instead of a grown man.do you think that going out a lot around a lot of people will help me I go out but not enough like I want.I work at a women's clothing store which I think should help after while. What do you guys suggest I do??

If you are out on a date with a girl, I would recommend that you have your arm around her shoulder as much as possible... women feel protected if a male does this in a casual, friendly way. And, it shows all that she is with you, and that's that.

Sounds more like personal insecurity issues, When you are with a lady, ( my women, shows a lot of lack of maturity) you have to be respectful and also understand that at times if someone does just speak to her. But then if you are going to places where guys will come up and hit on a girl with another guy, you are really going to the wrong type of places.

And if someone is disrespectful you leave, you don't do any mocho bull that only shows you are again immature.

I like to go out and have fun from time to time.but its not that often because I be busy.when I am at places that may have a lot of people like the mall,or casino,or bar I seemed to be taken out of my comfront zone.something I don't won't to admit.but I mite be just a little shy and I know just quiet at times but I choose not to be.I don't know what it is.I just be wanting to relax and have fun.kinda like I'm still in my shell.mab that I'm worrying about what other people think of me instead of having fun, or thinking about how I look like a teenager instead of a grown man.do you think that going out a lot around a lot of people will help me I go out but not enough like I want.I work at a women's clothing store which I think should help after while. What do you guys suggest I do??

I look like a teenager too, but is a grown women. You need let loose and don't car what people say because never matter what you do peop ar always going find something wrong, as long as your doing nothing wrong or illegal do you and don't care what people say. Do what you like to do because tomorrow is not promise, remember that and you only live once.