How do you know if your girlfriend is using you for money or possibly saying she is pregnant so you will not break up with her? Its confussing because she hasn't spent any time with me lately yet she's always asking me what's wrong when she already knows what the problem is. I have even tried being romantic lately. She just refuses to call me or even see me. I am just about to say it. If it does turn out to be my child I will take care of it, but there's no reason to be stressed out so it..