Do they expect a wedding gift? We weren't invited.
Please help this has happened three times to us in the last few months. Friend or coworker calls up on the phone to share the news that they have gotten married. Great, OK, but in one guy's case I didn't even know he was engaged until after he called. Are they somehow trying to get wedding gifts from us? I always thought a gift was what you sent if you went (were invited) to the wedding or to the reception, it's not like high school graduation where you tell everyone you know so they send you stuff? Or am I old fashioned? My wife thinks they are just calling everyone they know to use up rollover cell phone minutes.