This guy says he loves me every day even though we aren't going out no more. The whole month I wouldn't talk to him he didn't give up and kept calling. He walks miles to see me. I'm sure he loves me. But he tells me that he want to be with me forever he tells me he wants to have baby's with me... but I'm so confused there's things about me he doesn't know yet after all its only been eight months. And I can name a list a the things he don't know about me. We've made love we've woke up to each other cuddled laughed cried and played together... but he's never seen me completely naked before he doesn't know I'm bysexual... will he still love me after he knows and sees all these things and all my flaws. He says I'm his first love but does he really know what the work forever and love really mean? He's eighteen and I'm sixteen he's my second love... how do I no if this is the real thing for him. How do I know ? And how do I begin to tell him and show him all these things and all my flaws. My mom don't accept the fact I'm by and I've only told her and my three cousins... and the people I've experimented with. And I wount even wear a short sleeve shirt around the house only tshirts l.o.l I don't know what to think help please...

I think yo are very young for all of this experience. I believe that you should enjoy being young before you know it you will be 40 and will have lived too much. You are to young for kids and defineatly should not be having sex. Clear your head by not being involved with anyone and see where it takes you you have so much time.

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Originally Posted by confused777

I think yo are very young for all of this experience. I believe that you should enjoy being young before you know it you will be 40 and will have lived too much. you are to young for kids and defineatly should not be having sex. Clear your head by not being involved with anyone and see where it takes you you have so much time.

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I know and I understand what your saying I'm not thinking about a baby right now. And neither is he. He just means in the future... I've already fell in love twice. I know I'm so young and I wish I never experienced these things till I was at least seventeen but I can't cahnge the past now or never and now that I've experienced these things at such a young age I now need answers... from someone older

Hi I agree with some of what confused777 said. I'm 32 which is really scary and my oldest son is 13 I thought I was in love with his dad but he used me. I was a very naïve teenager. I would say to you though don't grow up too quick. Glad you not thinking of a baby yet I think you would be to young, but I'm saying this is right but my advise is if he loves as much as he says he does he will either wait for you or understand your sexuality. I replied to your other question regarding your dad, I think you should slow down a bit with the relationship until you are completely ready. I know some of what I've just said sounds like I'm contradicting myself but I'm trying give you advise from two sides. Does that make sense?

See my response to your other thread

He seems like he need his head check and he might be a stalker.

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Originally Posted by alwaystrue

He seems like he need his head check and he might be a stalker.

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Why do you say that?

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Originally Posted by alwaystrue

He seems like he need his head check and he might be a stalker.

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He's in the same boat as I do..

I want to call my ex and try to work things out...
The difference is.. we've been together for a year and five months.

We've made love, we've cuddled/kissed...

It sucks~

He is young, and confused, and feeling his way through his first relationship. You are young yourself, and finding out about yourself. Of course he thinks he is in love, but has so little experience, and you have your own issues. You both need to relax and have fun getting to know each other, without all the added wieght of who you are. Trust me as you learn each other, you'll decide if it works or not. We all go through this so relax. You are overthinking things. Let things happen in their own do time.

First you guys be very good friends. Try to know each others liking and disliking. This won't at least break your heart after you enter into a serious one. Be best of friends. Send him best friends day cards on coming June 8th. Be with each other on that day. Try to know each other very well and then think about stepping into further.