I have a cat that is does not like to be touched... she is mean and will bite.. I need to examine her skin as she is scratching to the point of losing fur.. she won't let me put anything on her or pick her up to see if there is anything I can do.. neither can I get her in a cat carrier to take her to the vet... I've had her since she was 5 weeks old so she doesn't have a history of abuse or anything.. she loves the dog!. any suggestions?.