How do I have more than one orgasm during sex? I don't know why but after my orgasm I feel in order for me to have another one I have to stop for a sec calm down then continue why is that? I want to have them without stopping the sex.

Lucky you for having even one!! I can't even manage that alone.

Are you male or female? That would really help us to best answer your question.

Oh Im Sorry Imma 23 Yr Old Female

Stimulation is key..

My opinion, if you are relaxed instead of agitated and needing to "calm down", you can learn to ride out multiple orgasms... that would be one way to have multiples. :)

Why are you complaining? Refractory periods vary but a few seconds! You're doing really well!