Okay so my boyfriend went to a strip club this weekend when he was visiting his brother and I really don't care... I kind of wish I was there with him but I'm kind of "punishing" him for being a "bad boy" by talking to dirty to him. I'm not trying to do this to be mean, I mean it's just kind of phone sex but I like the fact it's killing him since he is at summer school 45 minutes away and I only see him once a week. I mean don't get me wrong, it's killing me too but I just like the fact it's "punishing" him. So I need some help with some more material so I can continue talking dirty to him until he comes home this weekend. I do this kind sweet innocent but sexy voice and describe my underwear and say that I'm partially naked or something. Or certain things I might do to him. The typical stuff... I just need some more material to keep it going so it doesn't get old for him. I mean I could talk about my boobs for 20 minutes and he would love it but I want to be able to drive him insane since this is his "punishment." So please help ;) Thank you!

Really want to help you but not sure about what you want concerning what happening...

Sounds like you want to "punish" him... but keep him interested?

Well.. you can take the dominating role. Have him do your wishes. Hit his member against the phone. Follow your commands.

Or take it further. Make him talk you though self stim. Make him tell you what you need to do to yourself.

Honestly, if he isn't interested in getting you off with phone sex, why bother??

What's the normal MO? What normally happens? Might help to understand. Does he get off? Do you? What's the normal MO?

You could try sending him an email with sexy pics of you. But don't tell him about it until you are talking on the phone, that way he will see them and be talking to you at the same time.

I WOULD ONLY ADVISE THIS TO SOMEONE YOU REALLY LOVE, THAT LOVES YOU! AND NOTHING TO RACY OR ELSE THEY COULD GET INTO THE WRONG HANDS!

Just send him something of you in your nightie, or a bathing suit. Something that you wouldn't mind too much if others saw, something that the internet world wouldn't be too interested in JUST HIM! Maybe show a pic of you wrapped in a sheet with a little back showing or something simple but sexy like that.

I don't know, I really didn't get what you were trying to do... maybe it is already getting a little old for all concerned?

Maybe now, you should try "absence makes the heart grow fonder"?? :)

No all I want is some advice on how to talk to my boyfriend dirty. Because I don't want to keep repeating the same things. As for the "punishment", my boyfriend actually used the word and we're being playful. So plain and simple... I just need dirty talk material

Then read erotica or watch a porn.

Seriously--no one here is going to give you a script to read from.

You just need to use your imagination.

How old are you and are you sexually active? How far? Helps to understand the context of the question and frame an answer.

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Originally Posted by krenwick

Okay so my boyfriend went to a strip club this weekend when he was visiting his brother and I really don't care...I kind of wish I was there with him but I'm kind of "punishing" him for being a "bad boy" by talking to dirty to him. I'm not trying to do this to be mean, I mean it's just kind of phone sex but I like the fact it's killing him since he is at summer school 45 minutes away and I only see him once a week. I mean don't get me wrong, it's killing me too but I just like the fact it's "punishing" him. So I need some help with some more material so I can continue talking dirty to him until he comes home this weekend. I do this kind sweet innocent but sexy voice and describe my underwear and say that I'm partially naked or something. Or certain things I might do to him. The typical stuff...I just need some more material to keep it going so it doesn't get old for him. I mean I could talk about my boobs for 20 minutes and he would love it but I want to be able to drive him insane since this is his "punishment." So please help ;) Thank you!

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Just tell him the truth,and after take him alone for a short time and be faith.
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You talk in another thread as if you're around "college" age, so late teens, early 20's. Mkay...

Well why waste all the talk on him? What you are going to do to him... what about you? Don't know how sexually active you are, but sensual tension is something you can build with any level of intimacy.

Telling him what you want him to do to you serves several angles. It can let him know your desires, what turns you on, what you want from him, it can come naturally from your desires and not a script, and it can show you how he responds to your wants.

Now and then ill write out some of the things my lover likes to get her amped sexually. Thing is, some of the posts that get the best responses... the things that make a rater say "damn i need a man here now" aren't particularly sexually graffic. Foreplay is less about petting and necking, breast play and fondling. Half the time that stuff should be saved until later.

Go slow. Make him think about taking his time. Make him think about focusing on your body inch by inch, not "base" by "base". Slowly drawing his skin over your skin. His lips over the side your neck. His making your skin flush and warm. Making your breath shorten. Running his fingers across your pelvis. Peeling off that first layer and grazing his hand down the curve of your back. And on and on and on...

Close your eyes and imagine him doing exactly what you want, how you want, in detail, in slow time.

If he has half a clue, it'll get him excited. If he has any clue, he will try it all out to see how you respond. Bonus.

Knowing what my lover wants is a great feeling. Having a lover who can ask for what she needs is a great thing.

So don't just look at this as just a gift to him... use it yourself. If you are talking to him and not finding yourself running your fingers over your own skin, tracking your own body and sensually charged areas, you are just going through the motions.

And the suggestion about reading erotica is a good one.

You were mad about your boyfriend going to a strip club. OK. So he has a voyeur fetish. Describe him watching you shower, watching you dry off and lotion your body, watching you slip on a tee and climb into bed, waiting for him at the edge. etc... play off that voyeur fetish maybe?