We are in a very very old home,
So we are demo it down and will build a new home,
We are subbing everything out,
What I would like to know is the steps,
What comes 1st,
I know you have to pep the grown, right?
Stake out your outside walls, right?
Pour the footing, right?
Then get the framers, right?
And then I'm lost from there,
If someone could email the steps that I need to get my ducks in a roll that would help me,
I need step by step of what to do 1st then to last.

There is information concerning this all over the Internet. Have you tried the following searches?

Steps to Take in Building a New Home - Google Search

Steps to Take in Building a New House - Google Search

I think you mean ducks in a row and I must ask if you will be required to pull a permit.