So I read a lot about guys not wanting to marry girls that 'make it to easy'

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/advice/t-218739.html

What's the opinion on guys being the overcaring one? Is it the same just roles reversed or do girls like a guy like that?

Some girls like a touchy-feely guy. Other girls prefer a manly, stoic type. Some prefer althetics, others are drawn to the funny man.

You can't find THE answer to your question, the answer is different for every girl.

It's up to you to figure out which kind of guy you are, then find a girl who's looking for THAT. A fun hunt it is!

The rule is, there are no rules, so be yourself, and find someone who likes who you are, and vice versa.