9 yr old touched 5 yr old
I have a 9 year old son, who has touched my 5 year old daughter. The way I found out is that she searched for sex on the internet. Normally I leave her on nick jr or disney. I later looked up the history... Pre teen son (11) who is curious and I like checking up. So I blamed him and placed cybernanny on the computer. Needless to say he got angry and she came and admitted it and told me what she saw?!
I began probing and asking why would she want to see that. I thought to ask if her brothers ever shown her their nasty parts, she said the 9 year old. So I asked her if she ever showed him hers and she said yes (after I told her to tell me the truth)... I then asked her if he ever touched her nasty parts. She said yes. :eek:
I am disgusted right now and I don't know what to do from here. I know if I tell my husband he is going to lock the 9 year old son's door and bring the belt. I don't want this to happen again, and I don't know how to do this civilly. I am angry and hurt. My husband told me this would happen if I left them alone for too long. My daughter doesn't know how wrong this is, but I tried to explain it to her. I don't want to embarrass her too much so I am delaying the TALK with my son. She looks up to him soooo much. I wanted to blame my eldest but he is innocent. My husband was looking to say that the eldest would've been the likely one, but no the one we would never had thought of. He is so quiet and sweet.
I don't even want to look at him. I don't want to think of him as a sick person, so I am asking for help. Any advice would be appreciated.