I was just at dinner and I had to tell my husband to hurry because I couldn't sit still my pain was to bad. Once I got home I lied down and it got a bit better but not much, so I had a shower and that did help, but now I am sitting up strait again and my lower back is still in pain and my lower abdomen but I don't think my stomach is hardening. They are not unbearable it's more uncomfortable but I am not sure if I should go in. My discharge is between yellow and clear it has increased over the last 24 hours, I did have intercourse yesterday with my husband.

Try timing these pains... Are they regular or irregular? Are they getting closer together? Do they go away when you are moving around?

They don't really go away they hurt more when I stand up. I just went to the bathroom and I had a lose BM ( hot wings for dinner yummy), they feel like pressure pains.

How far apart are they?

Do you know how to properly time contractions?

No I don't think so, I have tired

I am I supposed to lie down flat?

Start timing the minutes from the very beginning of one pain all the way to the very beginning of another one.

They are sort of regular and lighten when I sit up but when I lie down they get worse or when I lean forward. I have a tingly feeling on top of my belly. It feels like a pulling pain in my back, the diarrhea is as well gone, should I wait till they get to the point where I can not talk?

It is now 9:51 pm five hours after all this started and they are getting less painful so I guess I am not in labour, maybe the baby all come tomorrow.

Be sure you are drinking enough. This could be brought on by dehydration. Have you talked to your doctor/midwife about when it is time to go to the hospital?

Yes I did and he said when you feel the need to, or when your water brakes.