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  • May 22, 2008, 06:30 PM
    Cowspot
    How do I know she's interested?
    Hey I really like this girl, and we somewhat flirt back and forth, but what do I do to let her know I'm interested... and how do I know if she's interested back. Any suggestions/ answers will help!
    Thanks!
    :)
  • May 22, 2008, 06:35 PM
    susy
    Go for it. Tell her you like her. That's all
  • May 22, 2008, 09:04 PM
    talaniman
    Stop worrying, and just have fun together, then the interest will build itself. If you continue to date and have a great time, trust me there is interest.
  • May 22, 2008, 09:20 PM
    concernedmom26
    You must come forth with your feelings, don't let her be the one that got away.. many girls would rather you express your feelings, and then they will theirs. At least once it is out there it can become more, do it in a good spot though... something that will make a memory...
  • May 22, 2008, 09:21 PM
    fereshteh
    I agree with everyone I would just tell her. Don't come off too strong but let her know how you feel. If she is interested she will definitely let you know :) Good luck!
  • May 22, 2008, 10:27 PM
    Cowspot
    Thanks for the suggestions guys I really appreciate it, lol ill let her know I like her, but I'm just afraid of the "lets only be friends" card. I asked her to do some stuff, and she seemed enthusiastic. This summer she said that she would go to the local amusement park, them go mini golfing. And this weekend we are going to the movies with some friends, and the following weekend she said she would come over, we would rent some movies and watch them. So she sounds pretty interested, and I really just needed some input. So thanks a bunch guys! :)
    So if you guys have any more input PLEASE do not hesitate to post more!!
  • May 22, 2008, 10:28 PM
    Cowspot
    Like for example, when to tell her that I like her :P
  • May 22, 2008, 10:34 PM
    fereshteh
    Well how long have you guys known each other? Have you ever went out, one on one, before?
  • May 22, 2008, 10:38 PM
    Cowspot
    Nope.. we haven't gone out alone before, and I've known her like a year, but we really just started talking to each other like a month ago...
  • May 22, 2008, 10:42 PM
    fereshteh
    Hmmm then I would maybe wait till you guys have had a date. Maybe don't throw out the "I like you a lot" card just yet. Have a one on one and see how it goes :) Although you may not want to listen to me, I am here asking for advice myself lol However, as a woman, if I were interested in you it would not matter if you told me right now or after we had a date. If you asked me out I would assume you were interested to begin with-so she will already kind of know, hopefully :) From there I am sure you will know just when the time is right to tell her exactly how you feel. Also maybe that date will give you a chance to see if she wants to just be friends or if there is something more.
  • May 22, 2008, 10:46 PM
    Cowspot
    Thanks a lot I really needed that. :) yeah, I'm probably going to go see the strangers with her, she loves scary movies, and I'm terrified by them so it should be interesting haha.
  • May 22, 2008, 10:47 PM
    fereshteh
    Oh well that will be fun :) I think I read you are in high school right? Just take it slow and have a good time, if anything you will get a good movie out of it and should definitely be able to see how interested she is :) Good luck, I am excited for you :)
  • May 22, 2008, 10:54 PM
    Cowspot
    Thanks :)
  • May 22, 2008, 10:59 PM
    Cowspot
    Okay so go out on a couple "dates" get to know her drop the bomb (at the right time), A. we both like each other, go out and everything is great and we live happily ever after THE END, or B. get rejected stay friends and move on! GOT IT lol thanks and I really hope it's a lol
  • May 22, 2008, 11:02 PM
    fereshteh
    Haha Well I hope it is A for you too :) But yea, that sounds like the perfect plan. Go out on a few dates which will let her know you are interested, take it slow, and when you feel it (and you will) tell her you like her-and hopefully she will tell you she likes you too :)
  • May 22, 2008, 11:07 PM
    Cowspot
    Sweet thanks!

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