Me and my little boys father have been on and off for about three years now. We had gotten back together here recently and everything was going great. But I had a gut feeling something wasn't right, so while he was asleep I went through his wallet. When I did I found a pawn ticket to jewerly of mine. I questioned him about it and he admitted that he stole the bracelet to get money for his addiction (something he has been battling since we got together) So I immediately asked him to leave.
This is not uncommom for me to ask him to leave and break up with him, but we always get back together.
So he tells me for days that he is going to "do anything he can to get back with me" But I kept pushing him away. And telling him no it was over this time.
He just told me he wanted to get back together on Saturday. Then I found out he had started seeing an old friend of mine. I was heartbroken.
This girl is what he like physically. She is thin and blonde and very pretty. His type. She is also a very sweet girl.
So he started seeing her on Saturday and he has spent every night with her since. Including Tuesday night he was supposed to watch our little boy and he wound up taking our son to her house and spending the night there. That is what hurt the most.
Like I said before, every time we have split up I have always been able to get back with him. This time he won't give me the time of day, he is telling me to move on with my life because he is moving on with her. But it is hurting so bad. I mean just last week we were so happy now all of a sudden they are together in a serious relationship. How was it so easy for him to turn off his feelings to me like that?
I don't know if I need comfort or advice more right now :( :confused: