2 yrs. Ago I met someone... both of us are married. He's married 17 yrs. 25 for me. We met walking our dogs in the park. Don't know where to begin... we had lots in common, he has met my husband, I have met his wife. Oh gosh, this is going to be too long of a story. Let's see. We got very close over two years I bought him gifts, he got me stuff we literally in two years have not spent one day without seeing each other (using dog walking as an excuse) our partners obviously didn't like it but we went out anyway until thi past December. He had open heart surgery. Before surgery one day I went to his house as was my custom to pick him up to walk dogs (I had a jeep I used my car) he was busy at work and didn't get to call me to tell me to come later. Wife just came home from work and nailed me. We started talking lightly about his heart condition and I guess she had the opportunity to tell me some of the things like don't come see him in the hospital (immediate family only, she said she didn't appreciate my telling her husband what to expect when he came out of the operation, I should have let the doctor tell him, and some other stuff). Anyway, then my cell phone rang it was her husband telling me he was still at work. I guess she didn't like that.
After the operation he called me. He told me we would walk the dogs again, but then one day I called the house (which I had done before) apparently, she had had enough he told me she was on the war path not to ever call. He waited a couple of days then called me. He said she wasn't going to stop. I don't know exactly what she was saying. Long story short we are going out again but only in the am not at night like we used to. He said she was watching the cameras that are outside his home to see what time he left.
I don't know what is going to happen.
I want things to go back the way they were (I know that's sick and they won't) but what should I do?
Please help. There is some much more I could say but it is just too long:(