7 years later.how do I get him?
Have been friends with a married guy for over seven years now and am totally besotted! I have been with him maybe 7 times in all these years and he always runs away after and avoids me for months until I make contact or he does. I don't ask him why or put any pressure on him.. I always think he feels guilty. I had a conversation with him about five years ago and told him how I felt about him. He said I deserved to be with someone who could be there for me all the time and that he loved me as a friend and wanted the best for me. I married a guy eventually three years ago but have met up with the love of my life several times a year.. most times just for coffee and a chat. I absolutely adore this guy and can't seem to get over or away from him. Am I obsessesed or truly in love? My marriage isn't working and never will as long as Im in love with this guy. We text each other regularly and sometimes these leave no doubt as to how attracted tome he is, and then when we meet up its all platonic or he holds my hand and kisses me but doesn't say anything and seems quite upset. Can't bear to think of life without him and don't know how to move it on. Help please?