Me and m,y girlfreind have been going out for a little less than 3 weeks. Is it to soon/late to kiss her? She is my first girlfreind. She has had many before me. I am almost 14. What sohuld I do with her?

Idont know


Thanks though

If you have to ask, it is too soon, when it is right you wlil know it.

k, its just that her ex-boy friends are pressering me to kiss her... what should I do?

Stop listening to the ex boy friends, may be a reason they are ex. Also remember don't ever listen to other boys as to what you should do, do what you know you should

I agree. When the moment is right, you will know.

Also, boys can be stupid and jealous. Her ex-boyfriends are probably jealous that you get to be with their ex-girlfriend. Just ignore them!

Hope this helps.

Ok we already answered this for you, remember? I wrote you a bunch of answers on your other question.. If you just don't like our advice... then maybe you shouldn't ask us

All right, you're pretty young, I wouldn't rush into anything. It sounds like you are OK with where you are now, you just sound worried about whether you're doing things right. There is no right or wrong answer here, just go with what you feel. Don't worry about what her ex's are saying. But if you don't feel you are rushing her or yourself, then just go for it!

Your kissing her or not kissing her is not a topic for discussion with other boys. So stop that, first.

Next, you want to know when to kiss her? That can be pretty easy. When you're alone and the moment feels like it "might be right"... you lean into her halfway and stop. IF she comes the other half of the way, you kiss. If she doesn't, you move smoothly away and change the subject to end the awkwardness.

Repeat that again in a week. It will happen when she's ready.

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When you're alone and the moment feels like it "might be right"... you lean into her halfway and stop. IF she comes the other half of the way, you kiss. If she doesn't, you move smoothly away and change the subject to end the awkwardness.

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I actually totally agree with that!

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k, its just that her ex-boy friends are pressering me to kiss her... what should I do?

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First of all get everyone out of your business. Second a peck on the cheek saying hello or good bye, will break the ice.

My boyfriend does this cute thing where he wraps his arms around me from behind and twirls me to face him the just quickly pecks me on the lips. Its cute and happens fast so that it rodent give time for anyone to feel awkward :)