I'm Sorta Confused rite now so I'm going to get to the Point, I'm interested in somebody who lives 1900 Miles away In Central America while I live in New Jersey just Near NYC, The problem is rite now that She doesn't pick up her cell much due to the fact that there is a lot of Robbery around in the Area where she lives. She has been extremely busy as she Works very long hours during the Day and Going to School During the Nite.

How I first met her is Sorta Beknownst to my Step-Siblings because one of them who's actually a Cousin of my Half-Sister only by my Dad's Side owns a Small Store that only sells clothing for Teenage Girls meanwhile she was and still does work as an Employee there. I known her since April 0f 2006.

That year we spoke but then when I got back home I only called her a few times but it wasn't because she was Busy is because I haven't called her due to personal reasons which I rather not discuss. But then everything sorta changed 2 years later in April of 2008 This year, My Parents and I came back to see a Step-Sibling but my dad knew in fact it was so I could see her again, but I was surprised she was there but told me she has plans to leave This August. That Month when she leaves is the month we plan to come back to Central America.

The day we spoke in person while she was busy doing Inventory I told her if she had a boyfriend which she said "NO" as she plans to focus on her Studies till she graduates in November (Similar to June), then We exchanged phone numbers as she gave me hers just hours before we we're to go back to New Jersey as our Spring Break Vacation Concluded. Now just a few weeks later I called she answered we spoke a little then the line went dead then I had the chance to call her workplace but then she was busy but before I was to tell her when it was the best time to call her since I couldn't reach her cell then line went dead abrutly.

But as of now I'm currently facing the State of Confusion cause she never picks up her cell which i've been trying for weeks at a time. My Dad says that maybe she's not interested why she never calls But she did deceided to give me her phone and address. Sometimes It haunts me thinking of her. Now My Parents want me to forget about her that they're so many girls out there even helping me find a girl over there but I feel like I want to get to know her before there's a turning point which is up to her.

I have deceided that I have plans on Writing a Letter to her expressing how I feel that I still want to talk to her only as a friend often till I see her again but that is still going to take time. I'm also thinking if I should send her something interesting. Rite now i've been trying to do this behind my parents back because it's like I gave them a promise that it doesn't have to be with her.

But I really want to tell her how I feel if this will ever work out and I feel like I want to start all over again. I'm not even ready to tell my parents about it. I also Feel like I want to stand up to them tell them that there everything I need in this world just to have Self- Confidence. I know I shouldn't be thinking about her more cause I feel like everything will have such an effect on me. I deceided that I want to keep her busy doing her thing for now. Her sister also works in the same place as she does, I only known her the last time I saw her in person. She only lives with her Brother and Sister.

There at times I want to call her job but I just don't want to let her get in Trouble or Fired because she only lives with her Brother and Sister I want to give them so much space and since her Boss is never there since she My Half sisters Cousin owns other places as we'll as she's a Lawyer her Half- Brother is mostly magages the place, meanwhile I plan to Volunteer and take a chance on taking Photography again during my spare time. I've never been intimate and involved with somebody before, I know there are some people who've never been.

I've been thoughout so many websites because I'm looking for sites where I can talk to experts who deal with Relationships. I know for me it's been hard to stand for all these Two Years since I haven't spoken to her but I might have to tell her the truth if she feels if she's intersted and she if she wants to go out on a fate. My Parents and I would plan on seeking her a Visa so She can Live and work permanently if that's what she wants. She doesn't speak english but I'm Hispanic and she's never been to the United States. Probably we can get married over there because I was baptised in my dad's Native Hometown Country which lies on the Carribean Sea. So If u all want to take the chance I appriciate any of u ppl just spread the word I'll be waiting Thanxs for ur time!!!

Looks like you're really serious about this girl. I've been in kind of LDR before, and we almost planned on marriage. But there's something I should tell you: do you actually know her? It seems too rush, you only talked to her twice and for few days. Marriage is a lifetime decision, can't just lean on several conversation like this. So, I think you should spend more time getting to know her well or else 90% your marriage will end up divorcing. Don't just listen to your heart blindly.

Yea I see, U know I've only known her more then twice she says she doesn't have a boyfriend but u know I don't have to think of her since we've never become intimate I just want to get to know her to see if it really works, but I'll take your word for it. If nothing really works it's just best to move on, we'll if u want to relpy to this answer once again I'll be happy to thanxs again!!

Even for the most mature committed couples, LDR is a very hard thing to pull off and among strangers trying to learn about each other, darn near impossible. Sooner or later, someone has to move closer.