I'm not sure I'm posting this in the right category, but I am 9 weeks pregnant with my third child. The problem is, the father of the baby I'm having now just went to jail. There is a chance he will have to do 3 years. That means my baby will be 3 or 4 when he gets out, depending on what they do. I don't know what to do. Should I take my baby to see him in jail for 3 years? Has anyone else been in this situation before?

You're worrying yourself now for no reason, which is the last thing a pregnant woman should be doing.. You aren't giving birth for another 7 months or so.. So I think you should relax and worry about it when the time comes. :]
Congrats !
Stay positive.

I don't think that if my child father was behind bars I would take here there to see he but I will send pictures and show the child pictures of her father.

Prision is not a place to take a child, he should have thought about this before he did what he did to land him there.