Hey I just started going out with this girl a few days ago... and I don't want to hurt her but I have already found someone else and I really really like the one I'm datin but I like her more as a friend then a girlfriend... I don't know what to do... :confused: :confused: what can I say... I need help on how to tell the one I'm dating that I want to be friends... with out her leaving my life for ever... ( would suck ) :o :o :confused: :confused:

Tell her how you feel, you can't control how she takes it. Just be gentle abot it and if you guys are good friends as you say you are, then she'll probably understand... allthough she might not want to hear it.

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Originally Posted by Kati-Katt

Tell her how you feel, you can't controll how she takes it. Just be gentle abot it and if you guys are good friends as you say you are, then she'll probably understand...allthough she might not want to hear it.

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Thanks that's probably going to help a lot... :o I don't want to lose her as a friend...

First off, stop signalling to every girl you date that you're exclusive. That's your problem here.

Make a date with the girl you want to go out with. Go on the date. When your first girl asks why, be truthful. "I'm dating people, aren't you? I didn't realize we had been together so long we had decided to be exclusive."

You don't have to participate in the part of the conversation where she gets all hurt and emotional. You've only gone out a couple of days. Even SHE may not be hurt at all as long you're truthful. It's only been a few days!

Why all the fear there will be drama?

Just sit her down and talk to her about it...
Tell her exactly how you feel...
You've got nothing to lose... just be honest

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Originally Posted by JBeaucaire

First off, stop signalling to every girl you date that you're exclusive. That's your problem here.

Make a date with the girl you want to go out with. Go on the date. When your first girl asks why, be truthful. "I'm dating people, aren't you? I didn't realize we had been together so long we had decided to be exclusive."

You don't have to participate in the part of the conversation where she gets all hurt and emotional. You've only gone out a couple of days. Even SHE may not be hurt at all as long you're truthful. It's only been a few days!

Why all the fear there will be drama?

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Thanks again

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Originally Posted by ZigZag07

Just sit her down and talk to her about it...
tell her exactly how you feel....
youve got nothing to lose.....just be honest

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Yes Yes thanks one of the best answers. =) thanks

Sure thing :)
Just remember... hoensty is so key. And I know its hard to do, I just did it the other day, but in the long run, its totally worth it :)

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Originally Posted by ZigZag07

Sure thing :)
just remeber....hoensty is so key. and i know its hard to do, i just did it the other day, but in the long run, its totally worth it :)

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yes it truly is lol =))