Hello all. Haven't been on the forum for awhile because things with my beau are going great! My question is this. Lately, my beau has been super super affectionate. The sex is great.. but lately, he has been having difficulty reaching a climax. He is diabetic, but the problem isn't with him not getting an erection. The difficulty lies in the fact that he has not been able to ejaculate after hours of sex. He will get the erection then he will become flacid. I try all sorts of things from oral sex to stimulating him aggressively and sometimes tenderly at this request but nothing seems to help. We are thinking one of two things. He has an infection in his tooth and has been taking Tramadol which is a mild pain reliever, simialar to that of taking eight tylenol. Every time he takes this medication, he becomes very realaxed and euphoric, but it does not prevent him from obtaining an erection. His analogy is this: He said that he has never been so in love with someone as much as he has been with me... and the thought and process of our sexual encounters has made him so comfortable that he does not want to "give it up" when we are having sex because he "enjoys it" so much. I have had that issue too, where I just wanted to hold out and then during intercourse, I lost my ability to climax. Is there any truth to his analogy? Has any man or woman experienced these same euphoric feelings that would interfere with your ability to climax during intercourse? Please ask questions if you feel that I might have left something out. Thanks.
