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  • May 15, 2008, 09:24 AM
    marita15
    How to break up I love both?
    my problem is,,,
    see i have two boyfriend,lets say A and B.i love them both,one was my childwood boyfriend and another is my current boyfriend.m in contact with both and had physical relation with both.in some expect A is gud but in some expect B is gud.dunno whom to choose!
    but i know if i will be with B,i will be happy but no doubt with A too.
    so please suggest me how should i break up.no one wants to leave me as i am very beautiful girl and every guys likes me.
    please help me out...
  • May 15, 2008, 09:27 AM
    bigbird213
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by marita15
    so please suggest me how should i break up.no one wants to leave me as i am very beautiful girl and every guys likes me.

    Your attitude is sickening. I think you need to be single and grow up a little bit before getting involved with anyone. What you are doing is cheating, and it isn't fair to either guy involved...
  • May 15, 2008, 09:51 AM
    Romefalls19
    Exactly, well put BigBird!

    While you may be beautiful, you seem too cocky. Along with being cocky, the spelling is just astonishing, so no, not every guy likes you. I hope you grow up and out of the phase you are in. Cheating is wrong, and karma is a b*tch, no sympathy from these boards for cheaters
  • May 15, 2008, 09:54 AM
    bigbird213
    And just so you know,

    Once you are out of high school, your personality will count 10x what your looks do. Keep that in mind.
  • May 15, 2008, 09:54 AM
    Tuscany
    Your actions show that you do not love or respect either gentlemen. Do them a favor and cut them both loose.

    Beauty is more than skin deep. While you might see beauty when you look in the mirror, it is your attitude and demeanor that makes you not as attractive.
  • May 15, 2008, 11:26 AM
    liz28
    So I guess A and B knows about one another. What happens if a C comes along followed by the rest of the alphabet?
  • May 15, 2008, 11:29 AM
    Ash123
    Well, it seems like a "GUD" idea if you spend more time focused on your "ChildWood" lessons like spelling and fair play.

    Pick one fast, or one will leave you - and it may be the one you like most.

    Good luck.
  • May 15, 2008, 02:23 PM
    talaniman
    Doesn't make me no difference who you zoom and I know you feel the same.
    Quote:

    no one wants to leave me as i am very beautiful girl and every guys likes me.

    As long as you have relations with them you will be very popular.
  • May 15, 2008, 03:05 PM
    JBeaucaire
    You'd be happy with either one them? Well, once they get to know who you really are and get past your good looks (?), my guess is NEITHER one will be happy with you.

    I concur, enjoy this little dilemma while you can. As you get older, and it will happen WAY faster than you want to know, the guys worth having get smarter and smarter, and the guys that will continue to be attracted to you and willing to be with you based on your appearance and lack of faithfulness... well, those guys aren't the ones you would WANT to be with.

    You're on a lose-lose path.

    I'd say that your most important life goal right now should be to add loyalty, honesty, faithfulness, perseverance and the ability to control yourself to your character. Right now, you feel it / think it and then just do it. That's bad on all levels. No self-control at all.

    Good luck, you (and the guys you have close to you) are going to need it.
  • May 15, 2008, 06:51 PM
    CFZD
    I'd leave both of them since they are both shallow men that judge girls based on looks.
  • May 15, 2008, 06:53 PM
    CFZD
    Oh are you 15? I just noticed your name. If so, you shouldn't be dating, that is too young and you MIGHT get all guys into trouble.

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